A blogging friend of mine has recently written a couple of posts about how hard it is as a woman to keep up with everything that is expected of us. Although I empathized with her at the time of her posts, I wasn't feeling overwhelmed with my own life at that point. Well - the time has come. I'm overwhelmed. I know this is the same as every woman feels, but sometimes it's just nice to vent right?
Don't misunderstand me - I have a wonderful husband who is very helpful when it comes to keeping the outside of our home in order, repairing things that are broken around the house, taking care of the children, etc. Unfortunately, he's just not too helpful when it comes to the inside of our home. I find this odd because I know that he had chores while growing up. Pretty much he leaves the cleaning and picking up to me. That would be fine if I only had to pick up after myself and the children...but I don't. He is famous for leaving his dishes by the recliner or on the bedside table, shoes all over the living room, dirty clothes in the floor, and trash on the counter.
I hit my wall last night and made a chore chart. Yes, I'm aware he might take offense to this and that it seems extremely elementary. I'm not saying that we'll post it on the fridge and get stickers or anything, I just want something to use as a guide. Something that he can look at and know what needs to be done and how he can help me around the house.
I'll let you know how it goes. ;0)
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So, we've "been there and done that" - it went well for about two weeks and now it is another piece of paper hanging on the fridge! Hope it goes it better for you! :)
I have felt this way more then once. I want to know the secret to a clean house or how people keep up. I want to know if it is even an option for a mother that works to keep up. I can't say I have pulled the chore chart on my husband but that is an idea. I thought I was the only wife that had a husband that did pick up after himself. Now I have to give him some credit for helping me with Logan but when it comes to house work he just is not good at it. Let me know if you find the long lost secret to keeping up.
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