Sunday, July 31, 2011

Blood Water Mission: Done!



My two week "water only" challenge is done!  
(remember my kick off?)

I'm pretty proud of myself, I was almost completely successful.   
(I added white, skim milk in the second week.)  

I weaned myself off of caffeine, and hope to never go back!  
(The headaches were rough the first week, I won't lie!)  

I was blessed to have several others come alongside me and do it with me.   
(Thanks Shelley, Brittany, Nikki, Cheryl, and Linda!) 

Cheryl even told me that she thinks she will continue on and keep donating the money she used to spend on bottled water to Blood Water 
(Yea Cheryl!!)

I'm proud to say that we raised $177.00!
 (Can you believe 6  people would've spent that on drinks in just two weeks?!)

Remember this?


The average life span of an Ethiopian is 55 years.  
(Which is actually only 160 / 191 countries!  I found this website very interesting.)
That means we just gave three people water for their whole life, plus some!

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Daddy Date: Hunter Edition

After Graysen's date with Daddy, the boys were very anxious for their turns...how to pick who's next?  They decided (on their own) that they would go youngest to oldest since Graysen is the youngest...so, Hunter was up next! 

They went to the river, got a cool soda in a glass bottle, got ice cream, and went to Grandma's house to play football in their huge front yard!



Hunter had a great time, and I know Lincoln really enjoyed spending one on one time with his first born child!!

Friday, July 29, 2011

Princess Camp

This month Graysen got to attend Princess Camp at The Dance Studio. 
It was full of dancing, crafts and, of course, Princesses!
 
Graysen's friend Bailee came too!  They enjoyed spending time together!



The boys were even good sports...they played War and Go Fish in the waiting area for an hour every morning!


At the end of the week they put on a small performance for us, of course, I cried.  


Thursday, July 28, 2011

Dear Basketball

Dear Basketball Season,

As I'm working on the school calendar for the 2011-2012 school year I'm reminded once again of one reason why I don't like you. Yes, you're still officially 3 months away, but you've already started taking over our lives with open gyms, summer shootouts, and camps, so I feel as though I can talk about you...now, in July.


Games. Yes, I don't like you because you involve games. Games played on important dates in my family's lives, and there is no skipping you, calling in a sub, or rescheduling you. You are, when you are. Boo.

Dates like the first game of the season: November 28th, more affectionately referred to in this house as Graysen's birthday. You take her Daddy away to either New Haven or Potosi that night. I don't like you.

Or February 10th: Claire's birthday. Again, Daddy will be in St. Clair, not home celebrating Claire's birthday with us.

February 14th: Valentine's Day. Nah, we're not a "typical" Valentine's Day couple, but we do like to celebrate it as Family Love Day. A day to celebrate our family's commitment to love one another unconditionally. Daddy will be coaching a game against New Haven that night.

(Note: We thought we would celebrate May 22nd [the day the boys came home from Ethiopia] as Family Day, but we don't like the idea of drawing more attention that they have not always been a part of this family...no reason to set them apart anymore!)


More? Okay, how about February 24th? Silas' birthday. On his second birthday with our family, Daddy will be coaching a game against Cuba.

And...although you're not on the calendar, sometimes, depending on how good the team is, you play a game on my wedding anniversary, February 28th. Then I REALLY don't like you.

So, basketball, I'm willing to admit that there are some positives about you...maybe I'll talk about them later in the year, but for now, I'm going to focus on some bad things about you...just for today.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Williams Reunion

Lincoln's maternal grandmother's side of the family has a family reunion every year over the 4th of July.



This year Lincoln wasn't able to go with us, and we only spent two nights there, but the kids and I did sneak down for a little bit, and we packed in a lot of fun while we were there!

Uncle Shawn gave Blake his first grilling lesson.  He was pretty good at it!  Of course now he thinks he can do it all by himself and makes Lincoln a nervous wreck, but he's learning and helping this summer!

We spent HOURS in the pool!  Now that the boys can swim by themselves we enjoy ourselves so much more!!

There was a lot of sitting and visiting as well...



Ping Pong was a favorite while we hung out in the hall...

Can you see how sweaty Hunter was?  It was SO hot outside, and he was working playing hard!

And we got to love on family members...


We had a good time!  Thanks for organizing the reunion each year, Marcinda!

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

a note that made me cry

I may or may not have thrown a little hissy fit during left-over night about it taking forever to make everyone's plates.  "Do you want spaghetti or pizza?  Red or white sauce?  Cheese or Pepperoni?  Peas?  Green beans?  Rice?"  Geez, it can take 5 years, I swear! 

I may or may not have made the statement "the new rule in this house is when you turn 8 years old you make your own dinner plate!"

I may or may not have said under my breath something along the lines of "I never get to eat, because by the time I get the last kid's plate made the first one is ready for seconds!"

Either way, at lunch the next day I came out of my bedroom (from walking) to a family who had all made their own sandwiches for lunch, and had even made mine, with this note sitting next to it.  Lincoln told me they told him exactly what to write...

"We appreciate you making our food every single day and every single meal.  Enjoy your sandwich!  We love you!"
 

I may or may not have then cried tears of regret, happiness, and thankfulness.

Kids, I'm sorry for snapping at you.  I am not perfect and I need to try harder to appreciate these years.  I was so happy you made my sandwich (and your own!), and I am thankful to my kids for forgiving my snide comments and loving me anyway.  I am most of all thankful to Jesus Christ for showing me Grace each and every day along this parenting journey. 


Monday, July 25, 2011

Adult Date Night!

We were able to sneak out of the house several nights ago with my Mom and Charlie, and Kara and Chad! 


It was so nice to eat a nice meal and enjoy their company without the children interrupting! 

I wish we had more time with these special people in our lives.   We enjoy their company so much, there is always laughter! 

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Holy is the Lord...in all situations.

This world is so small.  This video is from Kari's blog My Crazy Adoption.  Kari lives within 3 hours of me, and she is friends with someone I know who finalized their Ethiopian adoptions the same day we did!  Remember Sixty Feet?  The organization that I sold a crazy amount of cupcakes for?  Their mission statement is "Sixty Feet is an action-based organization created to bring hope and restoration to the imprisoned children of Africa in Jesus' name".  Well, Kari recently went on a missions trip to Uganda and Ethiopia with Visiting Orphans. They were able to visit one of the prisons that Sixty Feet works closely with.  This is some of her group ministering to some boys at M1 Prison in Uganda.  

I sat and sobbed through this.  Nothing breaks my heart like this.


Holy is the Lord God Almighty from Michael Smalley on Vimeo.

Thank you Kari for going, giving, and loving.

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Healer Keri Jobe

I have been so drawn to this song and it's message lately.  I find myself humming and singing it constantly.  I want this to be the message of my life.



You hold my very moment
You calm my raging seas
You walk with me through fire
And heal all my disease
I trust in You, I trust in You

I believe You're my healer
I believe You are all I need
I believe

And I believe You're my portion
I believe You're more than enough for me
Jesus You're all I need

You hold my very moment
You calm my raging seas
You walk with me through fire
And heal all my disease
I trust in You, Lord I trust in You

I believe You're my healer
I believe You are all I need
Oh, I believe

I believe You're my portion
I believe You're more than enough for me
Jesus You're all I need

Nothing is impossible for You
Nothing is impossible
Nothing is impossible for You
You hold my world in Your hands

Nothing is impossible for You
Nothing is impossible
Nothing is impossible for You
You hold my world in Your hands

I believe You're my healer
I believe You are all I need
Oh, yes You are, yes You are
  by
And I believe You're my portion
Lord I believe You're more than enough for me
Jesus You're all I need
More than enough for me
Jesus You're all I need

You're my healer

Friday, July 22, 2011

...and she's asleep

Graysen was having a hard time waiting for Mommy and Daddy to have their 10 minutes to catch up after work.

So, she camped out right outside our doorway, and before 5 minutes was up...


...she was asleep.

Thursday, July 21, 2011

family movie night at church

we really enjoy the fact that our church offers so many activities for children and families with children. one recent activity that the kids and I did was family movie night. it was supposed to take place outside, but since it was still 90+ degrees outside at 7:30 pm we moved it inside. we watched Toy Story 3 and they made us hot dogs, popcorn, juice, chips, and m&m's. we all had a blast and we're looking forward to our next movie night!

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

July 16th: our adventures in roasting hot dogs

Remember how I was going to just document July in pictures? Yeah, I talk way too much for that...but I'm going to try again!


Start the fire...



...and it goes out. Try roasting in just the smoke.

Silas remembers from Ethiopia...you must fan the flame!

Finally...roast the hot dogs!


Eat the hot dog!

Daddy gives up and pops the second package on the grill!




Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Sseko sandals.

I have been following Sit A Spell for a year or so now. I can't remember how I first found her blog, but it's really made me think. Like the uncomfortable kind of think...you know, the kind that eventually spurs you to change.

Anyway, recently she's been doing a series of posts on taking care of the poor, and how her family eventually became missionaries in Haiti.

Here are the posts in the series so far...

Caring for the Poor While Living in the Good ol' U-S of A?
Who Are the Poor?
Looking for the Poor
Hi, My Name is Heather and I'm a Modern Day Slave Owner
Helpful Links
Barn Burning
First, The Purging
The Better World Shopping Guide
More Really Great Shopping Resources
Running Hard After Redemption


Now in her series she's doing several posts on businesses that ARE taking care of the poor, businesses who pay their workers in other countries fair wages and invest in their lives. These are the other posts in this series...

The first of these businesses is Sseko Designs. I am posting this for one, because they are giving away a pair of these amazing sandals (that I would obviously love to win), but also because I hope to help inform people of reputable companies. Places where you can feel good about where your hard earned money is going (which is something I'm really thinking about these days).

From Sit A Spell:

Guest post by Cameron Crake.
Cameron Crake is the beautiful, brown-haired American in the back row.
Cameron spent a lot of time at our house when she was in college at Texas A&M.
Love this girl, and I'm incredibly proud of the work that
she and Liz (the blonde-haired owner) do at Sseko.
Aren't all these women lovely?

“Where does my stuff come from?” This was a question that I hadn’t really considered until about two years ago… I would read the labels every once in a while and see the “Made in China” or “Hecho en Mexico” label on my newly purchased items, but I never stopped to think about what the life of the person who made my stuff was like.

Until I did…. And then I couldn’t stop thinking about it... My head was constantly swarming with questions like: What are their working conditions like? Do they have kids? What are their hopes and dreams for the future? Do they even enjoy what they do? These questions plagued me because I realized that I didn’t know where most of the things in my closet come from... So I started seeking some answers and trying to find a better way.



Around that time I started interning with Sseko Designs- a “not-just-for-profit” company that gave me a glimmer of hope. Sseko sells leather sandals that are handmade by Ugandan women who recently graduated from secondary school, and aspire to go on to attend university. By working with Sseko, these young ladies are able to earn money for their tuition and receive an education that is not often a possibility for a young girl growing up in a war-torn and male-dominated country.

When I first starting working with Sseko, I would speak at promotional events about Harriet, Betty, and Mercy…. These girls who were halfway across the world, making the shoes that were on my feet, and going to university because of it.


But now I know them.

Ten days after graduating from college, I moved to Kampala Uganda to work full-time with Sseko Designs. It’s been over a year now, and it has been an incredible experience to see up close the way that a company like Sseko changes the lives of its employees.


Of course there is the most obvious change that takes place through employment with Sseko…. For our university-bound girls, that means making their educational dreams a reality. It means that Susan can become a teacher, and Betty can become a surgeon, and Lea can become a social worker.

But Sseko also cares about the well-being of its employees down to the day to day stuff... In fact, one of my favorite parts of my job has been establishing programs for the personal development of our women: health seminars, personal finance plans, typing lessons…. I get to sit down across from a woman and hear about how she wants to not only fund her own university education, but also help pay for her younger siblings school fees… I get to watch a woman turn on the computer for the first time in her life, and explain to her how a mouse works and where you place your fingers when you type…. I get to listen in as a health care worker teaches our women about the importance of hygiene and clean water.

What I’ve seen in this company is a deep, deep love for the women that it employs.


So when you buy a pair of Ssekos, you’re not just getting a fabulous sandal. Your purchase is going so much further than that. It’s going toward opportunity, dignity, education, empowerment, and love for a handful of women in Uganda.

You can purchase a pair of Ssekos online OR you can participate in a little raffle we have arranged for Heather’s readers!




{{Win a Free Pair of Ssekos}}


Here’s the deal: You write a blog about Sseko, tag us in a Facebook status, or tweet about us within the next week… and then you report back to let us know what you did through a comment on Heather’s blog. Participants will be entered into a raffle to win a FREE pair of Ssekos! Tagging us in a Facebook status counts as one entry, tweeting is also one, and writing a blog will count as five entries. One week from today, we’ll announce the winner. So let the games begin!

From Heather...

This is how my Ssekos are tied right this very minute.

One of my favorite things about Sseko sandals is that it feels as though you get several pairs of shoes from just one purchase. Not only can you buy different colored straps and change them out in your sandals, you can also tie your shoes in many, creative, unique styles. Go check out all the ways you can style your Ssekos. I can't decide which one I love most.



Monday, July 18, 2011

2 Week Water Challenge!

Hi friends! Remember this post where I challenged you to go 2 weeks with only free water in order to give to Blood Water Missions to provide clean drinking water to people in Africa?

Well...it starts today!!!



Here it is, in easy form (because sometimes I just need bullet points!)

  • Know that $1.00 provides clean drinking water for an African for 1 year.
  • Drink only FREE water for 2 weeks (July 18th - July 29th)
  • Keep track of how much money you would usually spend on other drinks (coffee, soda, tea, water packets, milk, etc.)
  • On July 29th donate that money to Blood Water Missions (by clicking here, or giving me the money at my Sole Hope party that evening)
  • Thank God that you've been given the opportunity to help another person.
So...who's in?