Tuesday, March 10, 2009

A picture is worth 1,000 words

When I look at this picture I feel so blessed to have a husband who loves our kids the way he does.  He inspires me to be a better mother every day.  These moments are not rare around our house.  We are a home that is full of love.  We have agreed that it is a priority for us to tell our kids as many times a day as possible how much we love them.  We hold hands, cuddle, hug, and kiss our kids a million times a day.  Of course there are the moments when I wish I could go 5 minutes without someone sitting on my lap, hugging on me, or wanting me to carry them around - but in those moments I am reminded of the months when we longed for another child in our home to love on.  Lincoln has told me time and time again that he will always make a special effort to tell and SHOW his kids how much he loves them by using their love language, whatever that turns out to be.  If it's a hug and high five, great.  It may be a special gift, a "great job!", or attendance at events.  Whatever it is, we're committed to doing it!  I think far too many men have a 'hang up' with expressing love for their children.  I hope that this generation of boys will change that.   

1 comment:

Laura said...

So sweet. I love seeing Matthew and my son, Jamie, Cuddled up together, too. It just melts my heart. There is nothing more endearing than seeing the man you love, loving your child.